Listed below you will find
suggested reading materials for students and their parents:
1)“Not Much, Just Chillin’ : The
Hidden Lives of Middle Schoolers” By:
Linda Perlstein
-In this groundbreaking study,
Perlstein chronicles the frightening and
fascinating lives of the kids, teachers, and parents she grew to know
intimately during a year in Columbia, MD.
2)“The Roller Coaster Years : Raising
Your Child Through the Maddening
Yet Magical Middle School Years”
By: Chalene C. Giannetti & Margaret Sagarese
- A comprehensive guide for parents
of 10-15 year olds.
3)“Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture
of Aggression in Girls”
By: Rachel Simmons
- Odd Girl Out begins with the
premise that girls are socialized to be
sweet with a double bind: they must value friendships; but they must
not express the anger that might destroy them. Lacking cultural
permission to acknowledge conflict, girls develop what Simmons calls "a
hidden culture of silent and indirect aggression."
4)“Queen Bees and Wannabes” By:
Rosalind Wiseman
- Wiseman has spent more than a
decade listening to thousands of girls
talk about the powerful role cliques play in shaping what they wear and
say, how they respond to boys, and how they feel about themselves. In
this candid, insightful book, she dissects each role in the clique:
Queen Bees, Wannabes, Messengers, Bankers, Targets, Torn Bystanders,
and more.
5)“Real Boys: Rescuing our Sons from
the Myths of Boyhood” By: Mary
Pipher & William Pollack
- In a lucidly written primer for
parents, Harvard Medical School
psychiatry professor Pollack dismantles what he terms "the Boy Code",
society's image of boys as tough, cool, rambunctious and obsessed with
sports, cars and sex. These stereotypes, he argues, thwart creativity
and originality in boys. Linking clinical insights to practical
suggestions, Pollack advises caregivers how to help boys repair their
fragile self-esteem, develop empathy and explore their sensitive sides.
6)“The Middle School Survival Guide:
How to Survive from the Day
Elementary School Ends until the Second High School Begins” By:
Arlene
Erlbach
-Grade 6-8-This book offers advice
in dealing with changes in the
school routine, teachers, families, social lives, sex (a section that
is fairly explicit), and issues such as drugs, sexual harassment, and
school violence. Pen-and-ink cartoons feature preteens and sometimes
parents in a variety of situations. A highlight of the book is the
advice given by actual middle-school students.
7) “Raising Cain: Protecting the
Emotional Life of Boys”
By: Dan Kindlon & Michael Thompson
- Boys suffer from a too-narrow
definition of masculinity, the authors
assert as they expose and discuss the relationship between
vulnerability and developing sexuality, the "culture of cruelty" boys
live in, the "tyranny of toughness," the disadvantages of being a boy
in elementary school, how boys' emotional lives are squelched, and what
we, as a society, can do about all this without turning "boys into
girls." "Our premise is that boys will be better off if boys are better
understood--and if they are encouraged to become more emotionally
literate," the authors assert. As a tool for change, Kindlon and
Thompson present the well-developed "What Boys Need," seven points that
reach far beyond the ordinary psychobabble checklist and slogan list.